✨ 10 Send This To Your Boyfriend
Alright, ladies, let’s be real. Sometimes our lovely significant others need a little nudge, a gentle push, or maybe just a super clear, bullet-pointed list of exactly what you’re thinking. Because mind-reading? Still not a superpower they possess, bless their hearts. Instead of dropping vague hints and hoping for the best, we’ve got your back. We’ve curated the perfect list of subtle (and not-so-subtle) suggestions you can forward directly to his inbox. Consider this your cheat sheet for getting exactly what you want, with a touch of charm and zero guesswork. You’re welcome.
1. The “Cook For Me” Challenge
This isn’t just about food, it’s about effort, babe. Slip this one into his DMs and watch his culinary creativity (or at least his takeout ordering skills) kick into high gear. Suggest something specific, like a cozy pasta night or even a fancy brunch. The goal here is for him to take the lead in the kitchen, or at least orchestrate the meal. Pro tip: subtly mention your favorite dish. He’ll appreciate the clear direction. It’s a win-win: you get a delicious meal and he gets to flex those provider muscles. Plus, less dishes for you.
2. Adventure Time Getaway
Bored of the usual routine? Us too. Send him a link to a cool Airbnb in a nearby town or an exciting activity you’ve always wanted to try. Think a spontaneous weekend trip or even just a day hike to somewhere new. This isn’t about booking it right now, it’s about sparking a conversation and showing him you crave shared experiences. Here’s the secret: mention something you saw that reminded you of him. It makes it feel less like a demand and more like a shared dream. Fresh scenery, fresh vibes.
3. A Little Retail Therapy For You
Let’s be honest, sometimes a girl just needs a new something. Instead of waiting for a special occasion, send him a link to that cute top, those new sneakers, or even just a fun accessory. Frame it as “I saw this and thought it was so me!” The key is a gentle suggestion, not an order. Pro tip: make it something you’d actually wear often. He’ll love seeing you rock his “gift” regularly. It’s a thoughtful way for him to show he pays attention to your style.
4. Help Me Tackle This Project
Got a DIY disaster waiting to happen, a tricky tech issue, or just a pile of laundry that needs folding? Don’t just sigh dramatically. Ask for his help. Frame it as a team effort, not a chore. “Hey, I could really use your muscles/brains on this.” He gets to feel like your hero for a minute. Here’s the deal: offer to help him with something in return. It builds a sense of partnership. Together, you conquer the world (or at least that flat-pack furniture).
5. Your Best Compliment Game
We all love a good compliment, but sometimes they get a little… predictable. Challenge him to come up with three new things he loves about you. Or ask him to describe you in three words. It forces him to think beyond “you’re pretty” (though we love that too). Pro tip: tell him you’re feeling a bit down and could use a confidence boost. It makes the request feel sweet and necessary. He digs deep, and you feel amazing.
6. Cozy Night In Vibes
Sometimes the best dates are the ones spent on the couch. Suggest a specific movie marathon theme, a new board game you want to try, or even just a blanket fort and some snacks. The goal is intentional relaxation, not just “doing nothing.” Make sure you pick out the snacks and drinks, or at least suggest them. It shows you’ve thought about the whole experience. Pro tip: turn off your phones. Seriously. This is about quality time, not scrolling. Instant reconnection, zero effort.
7. Sweat It Out Together
Looking for a fun way to get active? Send him a link to a cool new workout class, a scenic running trail, or even just a YouTube dance tutorial. It’s about being active together, not about hitting the gym every day. Suggest something low-pressure and fun. Maybe a yoga class, or a walk with the dog. Here’s the secret: focus on the fun and the shared experience, not the calorie burn. You both get those endorphins flowing, and maybe a good laugh.
8. Dream Trip Brainstorm
Who doesn’t love dreaming about future adventures? Send him an article about a bucket-list destination, a picture of a beautiful resort, or even just ask, “If we could go anywhere, where would it be?” This isn’t about booking a flight tomorrow, it’s about creating shared excitement for the future. Pro tip: mention how much you’d love to experience it with him. It makes it personal and aspirational. Future planning for future fun.
9. Learn Something New With Me
Expand your horizons together. Suggest a new skill you both could pick up: maybe a beginner’s pottery class, an online course in mixology, or even just trying out a new language app. It’s about shared growth and trying new things outside your comfort zone. Pro tip: pick something neither of you has tried before. It levels the playing field and makes it more fun. You bond over awkward attempts and eventual triumphs.
10. Just Because Sweetness
Sometimes, it’s the little things that mean the most. Send him a casual text like, “Thinking of you, wish you were here for a hug,” or “Could use a surprise coffee delivery.” This isn’t about grand gestures, it’s about those small, unexpected moments of affection. Pro tip: make it specific and easy to execute. A single flower, a favorite candy bar, or just a sweet note. It shows he’s thinking of you, and that feels pretty great.
Conclusion
There you have it, your secret weapon for subtly guiding your boyfriend towards making your day just a little bit brighter. Remember, the goal isn’t to be demanding, but to open the lines of communication with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of suggestion. Forward away, ladies. He’ll thank you for the clarity (eventually).
